---------- FORM 3 ---------- U. S. SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION Washington, D.C. 20549 Filed pursuant to Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, Section 17(a) of the Public Utility Holding Company Act of 1935 or Section 30(f) of the Investment Company Act of 1940 (Print or Type Responses) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ 1. Name and Address of 2. Date of Event 4. Issuer Name and Ticker or Trading Symbol Reporting Person* Requiring Statement (Month/Day/Year) Lister, Jr. Ted J. 04/22/2003 Gold Banc Corporation, Inc. - GLDB ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ (Last)(First)(Middle) 3. I.R.S. Identifica- 5. Relationship of Reporting 6. If Amendment, Date 7. Individual or Joint/ tion Number of Person(s) to Issuer (Check of Original Group Filing (Check Reporting Person, if all applicable) (Month/Day/Year) Applicable Line) an Entity _X_ Form filed by One (voluntary) Reporting Person __ Director __10% Owner __ Form filed by More 10975 El Monte, Suite 200 _X_ Officer __ Other than One Reporting -------------------------- (give title (specify Person (Street) below) below) Senior Vice President-H.R. Overland Park Kansas 66211 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ (City) (State) (Zip) Table I - Non-Derivative Securities Beneficially Owned ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ 1. Title of Security 2. Amount of Securities 3. Ownership Form: 4. Nature of Indirect (Inst. 4) Beneficially Owned Direct (D) or Beneficial Ownership (Inst. 4) Indirect (I) (Instr. 5) (Instr. 5) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Common Stock 32 1 401(K) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Reminder: Report on a separate line for each class of securities beneficially owned directly or indirectly. FORM 3 (continued) Table II - Derivative Securities Beneficially Owned (e.g., puts, calls, warrants, options, convertible securities) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ 1. Title of 2. Date Exer- 3. Title and 4. Conver- 5. Ownership 6. Nature of Derivative cisable and Amount of sion or Form of Indirect Security Expiration Securities Exercise Derivative Beneficial (Inst. 4) Date (Month/ Underlying Price of Securities: Ownership Day/Year) Derivative Derivative Direct (D) or (Instr.5) Security Security Indirect (I) (Inst. 4) (Instr. 5) -------------------------------------- Date Expira- Amount Exer- tion Title or cisable Date Number of Shares ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Employee Stock Options (1) 11/8/11 Common 1,000 $7.60 D Stock ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Employee Stock Options (2) 1/25/12 Common 5,000 $7.06 D Stock ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Explanation of Responses: (1) The option vests in five (5) equal annual installments. (2) The option vests in five (5) equal annual installments. /s/ Ted J. Lister, Jr. 4/24/2003 ----------------------------------- -------------- ** Signature of Reporting Person Date * If the Form is filed by more than one Reporting Person, see Instruction 5(b)(v). ** Intentional misstatements or omissions of facts constitute Federal Criminal Violations See 18 U.S.C. 1001 and 15 U.S.C. 78ff(a). Note: File three copies of this Form, one of which must be manually signed. If space provided is insufficient, See Instruction 6 for procedure.