FORM 4 / / Check this box if no longer UNITED STATES SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION OMB APPROVAL subject to Section 16. Form 4 Washington, D.C. 20549 OMB Number: 3235-0287 or Form 5 obligations may Expires: January 31, 2005 continue. See Instruction 1(b). Estimated average burden STATEMENT OF CHANGES IN BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP hours per response ... 0.5 Filed pursuant to Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, Section 17(a) of the Public Utility Holding Company Act of 1935 or Section 30(h) of the Investment Company Act of 1940 (Print or type Responses) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ 1. Name and Address of 2. Issuer Name and Ticker or Trading Symbol 6. Relationship of Reporting Person(s) to Issuer Reporting Person* (Check all applicable) Aslin Malcolm M. Gold Banc Corporation, Inc. (GLDB) _X_ Director __ 10% Owner ----------------------------------------------------------------------- (Last) (First) (Middle) 3. I.R.S. Identification 4. Statement for _X_ Officer __ Other Number of Reporting Month/Day/Year (give title (specify below) Person, if an entity below) (voluntary) 11301 Nall Avenue March 31, 2003 ___________________ ------------------------- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- (Street) 5. If Amendment, Date 7. Individual or Joint/Group Filing of Original (Check Applicable Line) (Month/Day/Year) _X_ Form filed by One Reporting Person ___ Form filed by More than One Leawood Kansas 66211 Reporting Person ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ (City) (State) (Zip) Table I - Non-Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ 1. Title of Security 2. Trans- 2A. Deemed 3. Trans- 4. Securities 5. Amount of 6. Ownership 7. Nature (Instr. 3) action Execution action Acquired (A) Securities Form: of Indirect date: Date, if Code or Disposed Beneficially Direct Beneficial any (Instr.8) of (D)(Instr. Owned Follow- (D) or Ownership 3, 4 and 5) ing Reported Indirect (Instr. 4) ------------------------------- Transaction(s) (I) (Month/ (Month/ (A) (Instr. 4) Day/ Day/ or (Instr. 3 Year) Year) Code V Amount (D) Price and 4) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ No changes. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Reminder: Report on a separate line for each class of securities beneficially owned directly or indirectly. * If the form is filed by more than one reporting person, see instruction 4(b)(v). Persons who respond to the collection of information (Over) contained in this form are not required SEC 1474 (9-02) to respond unless the form displays a currently valid OMB control number. FORM 4 (continued) Table II - Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned (e.g., puts, calls, warrants, options, convertible securities) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ 1.Title 2.Conver- 3.Trans- 3A.Deemed 4.Trans- 5.Number 6.Date Exer- 7.Title and 8.Price 9.Number 10.Owner- 11.Nature of Deriv- sion or action Execu- action of Deriv- ciseable Amount of of of ship of In- ative Exercise Date tion Code ative and Expir- Underlying Deriv- Deriv- Form of direct Securi- Price of Date, (Inst. Securi- ation Date Securities ative ative Deriv- Bene- ty Deriv- (Month/ if any 8) ties (Month/ (Instr. 3 Secur- Securi- ative ficial (Instr. ative Day/ Acquired Day/Year) and 4) ity ties Security: Owner- 3) Security Year) (Month/ (A) or (Instr. Benefi- Direct ship Day/ Disposed 5) cially (D) or (Inst. Year) of (D) Owned Indirect 4) (Instr. Follow- (I) 3, 4, ----------------------------- ing (Instr. and 5) Amt or Reported 4) Date Expira- Title Number Trans- ------------------ Exer- tion of action(s) Code V (A) (D) cisable Date Shares (Instr. 4) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Employee Stock 3/31/2003 A 50,000 (1) 3/31/2013 Common 50,000 $8.05 182,500 D Options (Right Stock to Buy) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Explanation of Responses: (1) The option vests in five (5) equal annual installments beginning on 3/31/2004. ** Intentional misstatements or omissions of facts constitute Federal Criminal Violations. See 18 U.S.C. 1001 and 15 U.S.C. 78ff(a). /s/ Malcolm M. Aslin 4/01/2003 -------------------------------------------------------- ----------------- **Signature of Reporting Person Date Note: File three copies of this Form, one of which must be manually signed. If space is insufficient, see Instruction 6 for procedure. Potential persons who are to respond to the collection of information contained in this form are not required to respond unless the form displays a currently valid OMB Number. Page 2